growing
Posted by orlandot in Polotics, Uncategorized, dating, life, music/remixes, productive on March 9th, 2010
growing up is a hard thing to do, why can’t we choose what we want to do on our own? why is it that everyone has to give an opinion or throw in their input to what we want to do?? recently have come to the discovery that i am growing up, life around us is evolving. every step is a learning process, can we better ourselves with time, i believe so. does doing something that someone makes you a good person or does something that you enjoy doing make you better and stronger person and with room to grow.
would changing a profession hurt you after many years of concentrating on another?
looking into another profession is hard, but i want to do the things i would enjoy doing instead of doing something because i have too.
“Why do people measure life by the years instead of how good the years were?! What good is it to live to be 100 but you didn’t do anything & you played it safe or lived to be 100 but did the things you loved!”
in all reality i have always thought of becoming a dentist, it came up on several job searches i took, but i followed what others wanted me to do because it was easy to do and was a easy way out. I am getting tired the bickering and nagging that i’m not doing what i am suppose to be doing. I am 1 person with 2 hands and can only do so much for myself. seeing this extra push and drive that 1 person is being given, it returned ten-fold. i am not a kid anymore, the choices we make now effect the future to be, times are changing, if you don’t grasp the change life will slip through your fingers.
“TODAY is a gift; that’s why they call it the PRESENT”
mistakes are made; we are human and there is room for error. whether you learn from it thats is up to the individual who made a wrong because “messing up is what makes a person. it’s how we learn, where we find joy and the things you don’t plan for are things you never see coming”.
O_o
You Deserve This,
Posted by orlandot in Polotics, Uncategorized, dating, life, music/remixes, productive on February 22nd, 2010
after watching this, i have come to the realization or had an epiphany if you will, to show that the saying that everyone who is older and wiser says, is beging to set in & set in big time to my thought process, we have all have heard it, “I’m not getting any younger” which I find a whole lot different meaning to these past couple of hours. which is something to be greatful for, no one can really tell you how to live your life, but if that person is giving you advice, it’s because they care about you. listen but do not act until you have thought it completely through because “I RUN ME” and only me, giving advice is a hard thing to do, but if advice is given and you can see it setting in or that person thinking about, then you have done all you can do. if that other person ask for help, don’t just jump to a conclusion and give them an answer to what they want to hear. ask what there thoughts are first to see if it is the same or different then what advice may be coming out of your mouth. but this; after reciting outloud can be what they need, just to here there own thoughts out loud and then for the person to come up with there own decission because if someone thinks something through, it can effect everyone arround them and may not know it.
for the reasons that WE all deserve happiness in our lives, whether it be small or big, “we all deserve it.” every day brings us a life lesson; have you learned yours today?! evreything around is and can be used as inspiration to better ourselfs or even solve a problem. something as simple as one word or a phrase or a quotaion can help us better understand “us, me, I, ourself, etc.”
is change what we are looking for or are we always trying to find someway to adapt to what “society, social media, etc” choose for us to think?!
none of us are perfect! we all have our own flaws, can we recognize them should be key or do we get so self involved on what others have to say or think?! with this being said; “to the eye of the beholder” is something I like to say to myself in order for me to see things clearly, I see perfection in the little picture that make the big picture. because not everyone can be what society now-a-days has wanting to be by telling us what to wear, what to smell like, etc. health can be a huge factor in the kind of people we are. most people “want what they can’t have,” this is when jealousy, anger, bitterness, etc. comes in to factor; it’s not a pretty picture at all, if it makes you feel as is YOU think your better then that person, then why is it that you don’t have what someone else may have. don’t try to lure your way in and mess something up because fate wasn’t on your side this time and now your miserable because of it.
everyone makes mistakes; we are all human; but there is only two things you can do, you can not alter it, refine it to your liking, etc. “you either learn from it or you run from it” there is always room for change. will you accept it or deny it?! Do you deserve this as much as the next person?! YES WE ALL DO!
-O
Feb 17, 2010
Posted by orlandot in Polotics, Uncategorized, dating, life, music/remixes, productive on February 17th, 2010
I think today (my 23rd birthday) took the iceing of the cake (figuratively speaking), it beat out when I was 5 y/o and had a party at McDonalds (don’t judge me) where I had about 10-20 kids join me in killing a ice cream cake with extra vanilla ice cream and cookies. Today I got my favorite kind of cake/frosting (strawberry/butter cream) HANDMADE by my awsomest girlfriend and got to see her as well, I’m sitting here at work writting this out and can’t help but think how blessed I really am. Thank You for errything I greatly and highly appreiciate it.
mistakes;
Posted by orlandot in Polotics, Uncategorized, dating, music/remixes, productive on January 10th, 2010
we can all say we have made mistakes; do we regret them? I sure have thought about regretting them, but in reality all we can do is SAY we do, but do we really mean it?! after a conversation having with someone mentioning to learn from mistakes made by others and to better themselves and their life in general; the best thing they know how to do is RUN and HIDE. If you could just take a moment to look at the big picture and realize that the reason for mentioning this is for you to realize on your own that nothing in this life is ever given to you on a silver platter. BUT EARNED!!! If something is ever given to you it is because it is earned. I have learned LIFE is all about drive, sacrifices and acceptance.
Growing up all you want to be is accepted by others around you, if your not accepted you begin thinking maybe this place is not for you, when in reality everyone is here for a certain reason. If everyone could just remember “It Could Be Worse” life would be so much more simple, and we would be able to open up to know what others that do not open up could have gone through or are going through.
Everyone Will Always Need The Help Of Another
no matter what the situation may be. If we could use this to our advantage and help others in need, one day we will need help ourselves, but until that day arrives, look at what is going on around you and you may seek the answer you are looking for.
-O
Life, Liberty & the Pursuit of Happiness
Posted by orlandot in Polotics, Uncategorized, dating, music/remixes, productive on December 11th, 2009
Lately I have been filled with this in my mind, after seeking out some answers with GREAT people I have come to discover that the saying “Live, Laugh, Love” isn’t all what it is about now-a-days; even though LIVING is great, Laughing “is the best medicine for a longer life”, and Loving is gift and should not be taken for granted whatever it may be; at my day and age I have come to discover that “Life, Liberty, & the Pursuit of Happiness” is the way to go! Where LIFE = YOU in a sense that you are alive and in order to go on to the others you need to be ALIVE! Also where LIBERTY = YOUR FREEDOM/MIND/THOUGHTS/DREAMS/GOALS such that we ALL need to have this in order for us to move forward and experience what we want in life, & finally THE PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS = PASSION which can include anywhere from LOVE/HEALTH/CAREER/FAMILY/ETC.
In life “WE ARE KNOCKED DOWN IN ORDER FOR US TO LOOK UP” with this being said, many take this as a sign of weakness when in reality any particular situation can be learned from whether it is a small piece of information or a huge load of information. The experience is also where you are taught, even though what you may be doing is a good or bad thing, with this being said, life is also about taking risk and the choices you make effect what happens in the future.
“TODAY IS A GIFT, THAT IS WHY THEY CALL IT THE PRESENT” such that you have two roads to choose from while sitting in your car, a hill road that is lit up well with $50,000 waiting at the end of the road OR a dark road with little light and a “?” box at the end of the road. WHICH ROAD WOULD YOU CHOOSE?! I personally would take the light lit road; heres why, when you are given the choice to choose you have set yourself up to be mature enough and given all the proper skills you need in life to take the risk and make choices for yourself. Yes there is possible room for mistake but that is why the car has REVERSE so you can back up and realize that the road you take has glitches and can avoid that route again for in the future you don’t go down that same path. If you do take the well lit hill road and reach the $50,000; yes it is a good thing but at the same time what experience/life lesson do you take away from it. that easy/safe is better! HELL NO!!! I Will leave you with this in mind.
Why do people measure life by the years instead of how good the years were. What good is it to live to be 100 but you didn’t do anything. You played it safe and lived to be 100 but have nothing to show for it.
-O